Friday, December 5, 2008

So lucky

I am so in love, and so lucky.  I love that I never have to fabricate anything about my fiance.  He is who he is, and I love him for who he is now- not who he could become.  We both have things to learn in life, but I know that he is the one that I want to go through life with.  I love how he can make me laugh through anything.  He is my romantic guardian playmate.  I am so appreciative of his support through all these changes being made. 


I'm so excited to be his wife.

I believe we have a heck of a shot at helping give marriage a better rep.  It is all a matter of choices.  Choose not to make sarcastic jokes.  Choose to talk about the good things about your loved one.  Choose to remember sweet memories together.  Choose to turn off the TV and learn something new together.  Choose to seek God's help.  Choose to refuse to join in when others are bashing the opposite sex.  Choose romance.  Choose loyalty.  Choose joy.  Choose to strive for more and more out of your relationship (the relationship, not the other person).  Choose to be content with the other person.  Choose to not hurt.  Choose to stop ridiculous fights.  Choose to laugh.  Choose to love.  Choose to be brave and love more passionately every day.

That is the marriage tip of the day from this 20-years-old bride-to-be.  

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